Well the cat is totally out of the bag now thanks to my husband. I really hope that doesn’t come back to bite us in the ass. I’m being as understanding as I can be because I know he’s just excited. For that reason alone I’ll let it go and not tell him that I’m irked.

99.9% of people are happy for us. Almost everyone though is saying “Enjoy it since this is your last“. Who said it’s our last? Is there some unwritten rule that we are only allowed to have 2 kids? Honestly we’re planning on having one more after this. We’re also getting a lot of people saying “I bet you hope it’s girl this time“. Again, why? We don’t really care. Sure neither family has a girl and it would be refreshing, but having a boy would save a ton of money in clothes. Honestly we really don’t care. I think it goes back to the comment of it being our last and people think we should have one of each. What’s it to people? I never correct them, what’s the point.